The problem with this space is that we often find what we want to look for because it's full of the strongest cultural biases and there's a wide variety of compelling and conflicting information.
I dunno what "it" is, but it's real. There's enough evidence for it that we can't round down on its existence. There is as much evidence for some parapsychological phenomena as there is for some traditional and accept psychological phenomena.
We can't say what it is or how it works, but we can conclusively say it's real now. There's some sort of system present and our best efforts to understand how everything works missed this.